For starters, the purpose of this post is a cry for design assistance. I have lampshade and curtain mind block. Help me pick them - the fate of my bedroom decor rests in your hands. Too dramatic? Nah.
To make a long story short, or per my usual method, make a long story long, we have purchased new bedroom furniture and it has been on order. I'm very excited about it, and the store says it could be in this week or weekend. Here is the bed:

This bed is what I've always been looking for. Sleigh-style headboard. Extra storage in the end of the bed. Genius.

Here is the night stand. It doesn't look like much, but it is by AspenHome and they have very innovate pieces. See that little "dot" on the side of the stand? That is a touch button. Just touch it with a finger and a night light attached to the underside of the stand fires up. Not to mention this:

This is what AspenHome calls the "Liv360" feature. Charging cords and cubbies. In your very NIGHT STAND. Nerd alert. I is one. In all seriousness, though, their furniture really does have a lot of thought put into it. Thought for real people and their real needs. Pretty cool.
We also purchased the dresser, but without the mirror. We like the tele on there, okay?
I have already purchased a new duvet cover and pillow shams as well. Here's the new duvet and pillow shams I purchased:

This bed set is still on sale at West Elm and there are several colors. But hurry, it seems to be disappearing fast. I picked this out because I thought the color would look good with the black furniture and will be more washable than my current quilt that has to be sent to the cleaners.
Last but not least, our wall color is a nice, warm tan. Not too red, not too yellow, it is a great color. It is actually a Sherwin Williams color, Totally Tan. I think the bed set and furniture will go well.
So, since I told you this is a long story long... I am debating curtains and lampshades. I have black curtains, which I might keep. If you think maybe a white curtain or another color might be a good option, by all means leave me a comment. I kind of want a change, but I'm not sure there is a better option than black. What would you do with curtains in this scenario?
Last, I was interested in lamps that are similar to this one below (not yet purchased). I know they are out there everywhere, just need to have time to run around and search.
If you can't tell from the photo, it is a stacked acrylic lamp base. I want something glass-like. I intend to decorate with some glass accessories, like a large apothecary-style jar with a filler of some sort, like natural woven orbs. So, it begs the question, black lampshades? Neutral? White? Cream? I can't picture this one. What color lampshade would you do in this scenario?
So, that's my predicament. When we got married, we patched together a bedroom set from some pieces I already had, and I just got so tired of it. My style evolved. It isn't life or death, but I finally have found bedroom furniture I really love, so I want to get precisely what I want and what looks great. You know what they say about your bedroom being your sanctuary? That's what I'm going for. Share your lampshade and curtain ideas!